So, here’s what I’m staring down during the week ahead.
The Boy and The Girl’s 16th birthdays.
(I have no gifts purchased and zero ideas, especially for The Boy, and no money for an “experience” gift, like a weekend in New York or something like that.)
A major holiday involving a 6 hour drive (each way) across T**mpsylvania.
(That would be Thanksgiving, complete with multiple helpings of stress and several people who aren’t talking to us.)
The two-year anniversary of The Husband’s seizure during Thanksgiving Dinner 2015 and me reviving him on the bathroom floor.
(Of which we’re still dealing with lingering physical, cognitive and emotional effects. Us, not the bathroom floor.)
And just for good measure, my 30 year high school reunion!
(My high school years were … well, you can read about them in my post “25 Year Later. It Gets Better.” It says something that this is the event I’m most looking forward to this week.)
On top of which (yeah, there’s more) the weather is total crap (raining, cold, windy, snow) and I’ve had a cold since Wednesday. I’m at that stage where I’m convinced I’ll be sick forever. This has turned into a sinus headache from hell.
The only thing to do is all that I can do in these scenarios:
Do what I/we can, in whatever way works for me/us.
Don’t obsess over what we can’t control.
Focus on the positive aspects. (Neither kid wants a car for their 16th birthday nor has any interest in driving yet! Now that’s something I’m thankful for.)
Abandon expectations and all notions of “the way it was/should be/could have been.”
Reduce social media time.
Make sure to get enough sleep.