|Spotted while walking back to Penn Station in New York City,
immediately following the 1st annual Book Blogger Convention (May 2010).
Maybe it’s because I’ve been somewhat out of the blogging loop for the last week or so, but, well … I can’t help noticing something a bit amiss here as I catch up with my Google Reader.
I mean, did someone spike the water here on the Interwebs or something? Because we all seem to be having a collective blogging and reading mid-life crisis. (I read a lot of blogs, and while no one niche is immune to this, I’m noticing it most in the book blogging world.)
By “we,” I mean that in the broadest possible sense. Not saying that everyone is experiencing this, but more than a few posts seem to be … well, somewhat worrisome.
And by worrisome, I mean that in the hand-wringing sense of the blogger feeling not good enough, or not measuring up to some standard or expectation. We’re not a good enough writer, we’re not reading/posting/commenting enough, we don’t have as many followers as Blog X, we’re feeling lost and directionless, we’re in a reading/blogging slump, we’ve lost our focus (if we even had it to begin with), we’re not sure why the hell we even started doing this blogging thing in the first place.
Believe you me, I’m not immune to this angst. I’ve certainly been there. Am STILL there, in some ways. Will be there again. So this is not a holier-than-thou kind of post. Far from it.
If you’re going through this, I absolutely understand. I think it’s actually natural to look at others and compare ourselves to our peers.
But it makes me feel bad to see y’all feeling bad, if that makes any sense. I mean, I just want to give y’all A BIG OL’ HUG. To say that whatever you’re doing or not doing with your blogs or your reading or your writing or whatever is troubling you IS OK. You’re doing FINE. There’s way too much to worry about in this world to be worried about what others are thinking or doing, you know?
Maybe this is just the way we types are wired. Maybe this is just part and parcel of this blogging world of ours. Maybe it comes from reading too many posts from know-it-all’s who proffer posts like “Why Your Blog Sucks” or “5 Ways to Make Your Blog the Next Big Thang.” Maybe it’s a seasonal sort of thing – with Book Blogger Appreciation Week coming up, or the “new year” of kids going back to school, or several of us celebrating blogiversaries.
Whatever the hell it is, it just seems as if there are more than a few folks suffering from Notgoodenoughitis and it bothers me that you’re all feeling all down on yourselves and your work.
Hence, this post.
So, keep on doing what you’re doing. Or change things up if you’d like. Or … whatever.
And if you recognize yourself in this post, consider yourself hugged. You’re doing just fine.
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